Don’t be afraid to ask for help, because there are people who would love to be there for you. The main thing is that you get the help that you need at the most critical time that you need it. Your gift can be right in front of your eyes. Take the time to listen to your inner voice and don’t be so quick to push others away. Sometimes when you are hurting or grieving, you aren’t thinking clearly and you don’t see what you need. We were not put here to deal with life on our own. You are not the only person this has happened to. Let’s face it, no matter how bad you want to, no matter how much you think you’ve got it taken care of, you need someone else. 3) Surround yourself with a support system don’t try to go it alone. These acts of kindness can help turn our hurt into healing. Even though this situation may be very painful, how can you use it or see it as good? Get involved in a charitable group that helps people who have committed suicide, volunteer on a support line, donate your loved ones clothing to someone in need. Are you stuck in shame? Know that it is not your fault. What are your thoughts? What are you thinking and speaking into existence? Are you stuck with self-blame, you will have to move one. Happiness does not depend on what you have or who you are. Your thoughts are a very strong predictor of your behaviors. In order to move forward with your life, to get to a healthier place, we must practice positive thinking and forgiveness.
2) Practice positive thinking and forgiveness. Once a plan is in place, if help is not received, a very high number of these individuals execute their plan. Many suicide executors have a plan in place in which how they will take their lives.
Yes, there could have been warning signs, but you can’t blame yourself for not picking up on them or being there in the moment to save them. Outlined are some helpful strategies that will help you through your grieving process after losing your loved one as a result of suicide: 1) Don’t play the blame game.Īlthough there are many unanswered questions when a loved one commits suicide, ultimately you were not the one who committed the act. These symptoms could easily turn into unresolved grief issues in which help is warranted. The problem arises when we begin to notice unhealthy behaviors such as not wanting to get out of bed, not wanting to take care of personal hygiene, refusing to eat, or over-eating, especially after an extended period of time. There is not a set time limit on how long a person should grieve. When we begin to realize that we are not alone on this journey, it will make our walk, just a little easier. Hurt will happen, but we must believe that in time, we can heal from it. These feelings of overwhelm may cause distrust of self and others or even cause one to question the meaning of life. Living through loss and grief can be very challenging, and loss can occur in a number of ways the death of a loved one by way of suicide might cause some to question what they believe or what they thought they knew to be true. Many people tend to blame themselves, the victims leave with no answers, and there’s always that thought of “what could I have done differently?” When suicide is involved it can hurt at an even deeper level, usually because of unanswered questions. On any given day, hurt can be a very present part of our reality. We all experience some type of pain in our lives. Remember that everyone grieves differently: you don’t have to fulfill society’s expectations.
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